Wednesday, December 31, 2025

2025 in Review

Highs

  1. Befriending Dianna and Michelle
  2. Boo Birthday Visit
  3. Solar Bears game 
  4. 40th Birthday Photoshoot
  5. Nicole's Selene & Astro artwork displayed in my line of sight for most of the year
  6. Cromulent Basement Opened
  7. My baddie therapist 
  8. Swimming in Martha's pool
  9. Orlando 150 Shirts/Events
  10. Reconnecting with Leah
  11. 40th Birthday Weekend (and all other 40th celebrations!)
  12. Volunteering at the Backpack Build
  13. Devils Den
  14. Baby's first book nook
  15. Colorado Fondue 
  16. Cuz Mass. Visit
  17. Ghost Photoshoot 
  18. Smiskis
  19. Junk Journaling
  20. Trash Pickup Volunteering 
  21. Aura Photo/Reading
  22. Silent Disco-ing 
  23. Ashley's Engagement Party
  24. Letterlooping with Alyssa, Nicole, & Taylor
  25. Olive winning Cutest Cat 2025
  26. And the little moments that mean so much - like the cat cuddles, venting and then giggling with friends, expressing my creativity in various forms, singing my favorite part of a song in my car and at the concerts I attended, hugs, FaceTimes, quiet mornings by myself, all the glorious naps I took, and so much more. Here's to all the things I'm grateful for in 2025 and a big "fuck you" to everything else.

Lows

  1. Losing Marie and Charlie
  2. Down & out a week with the flu
  3. Mike Sullivan gone
  4. Aaron Rogers in
  5. Still not meeting Mayor of Thornton Park aka Lulu
  6. Down and out a week with covid
  7. Nikki Glaser ended her podcast
  8. My I-4 express lane accident
  9. Cheeto's hypothyroidism and radioactive camp
  10. Ken leaving
  11. Liz leaving 
  12. Olive's UTI

2025 in Numbers

38  Movies
36  Books
6    Concerts
4    Tattoos
2    Out of state trips
2    Comedy Shows
1    Solar Bears game



Pop Culture Moments

  1. Kendrick Lamar walk-n-smile meme from the Super Bowl
  2. JD Vance baby face
  3. "Get me to god's country" Meme
  4. Katy Perry's disaster tour and trip to "space"
  5. Gavin Newsom trolls Trump online
  6. What the helly?
  7. Labubus take over 
  8. Sardine fashion
  9. Coldplay Couple
  10. Taylor and Travis Engaged
  11. 6-7
  12. "Crashing Out"
  13. The Vanity Fair Spread

Tik Tok Trends

  1. Anglerfish
  2. Cats and their emotional support concrete slab
  3. Lizard, Lizard, Lizard
  4. Squat with one foot while holding something 
  5. "When Did You Get Hot?"
  6. What's Going On x Beez In the Trap                  

Celeb Deaths

  1. David Lynch
  2. Cecile Richards
  3. Roberta Flack
  4. Michelle Trachtenberg
  5. Gene Hackman
  6. George Foreman
  7. Val Kilmer
  8. Pope Francis
  9. George Wendt
  10. Brian Wilson
  11. Ananda Lewis
  12. Michael Madsen
  13. Malcolm Jamar Moore
  14. Ozzy Osborne
  15. Hulk Hogan
  16. Giorgio Armani
  17. Robert Redford
  18. Jane Goodall
  19. Diane Keaton
  20. Dick Cheney
  21. Rob Reiner

Major News Moments

  1. New Orleans Terrorist Attack
  2. LA Fires
  3. Tik Tok banned in U.S. and then...not
  4. Goalie Goal!
  5. Elon Musk Nazi Salute at Inauguration
  6. DC plane and helicopter collide, Philly plane crash, Toronto plane upside down, and all the insane aviation issues this whole damn year
  7. "Gulf of America"
  8. Cory Booker breaks Strom Thurman record
  9. Alligator Alcatraz
  10. Diddy Trial and not guilty on worst charges
  11. Texas flash flood
  12. Epstein 
  13. Rainbow Crosswalk War
  14. Radioactive Shrimp

Tuesday, December 30, 2025

2025 in Movies/TV

Movies

I fell off seeing movies in theaters on a regular basis since the pandemic but this year I gained some traction to bring back the in-person experience.  I bolded all the theater watched flicks and linked the trailers for all the movies I really enjoyed this year below. 

  1. Here
  2. We Live In Time
  3. Saturday Night
  4. The Wild Robot
  5. Flow
  6. The Unbearable Weight of Massive Talent
  7. Rule Breakers 
  8. Alien: Romulus
  9. A Real Pain
  10. The Electric State
  11. The Life List
  12. Summer of '69
  13. Mikey 17
  14. Anora
  15. Materialists
  16. Furiosa
  17. The Phoenician Scheme
  18. The Last Showgirl
  19. Superman
  20. Party Girl
  21. Fantastic 4
  22. Turtles All the Way Down
  23. Happy Gilmore 2
  24. The Life of a Showgirl
  25. Friendship
  26. Puss in Boots
  27. Sinners                                                                                            
  28. Frankenstein
  29. Elio
  30. Deadpool & Wolverine
  31. Wake Up Dead Man
  32. Thunderbolts
  33. One Battle After Another
  34. Oh. What. Fun.
  35. Memoir of a Snail
  36. Train Dreams
  37. Watch the Skies
  38. Caught Stealing                                                      

TV Shows

    My tastes range from true crime to trash. From comedy specials to documentaries. From critically acclaimed dramas to book-inspired limited series. From sci-fi to young adult. And just about everything in between. You know the drill now, I linked the trailers for all the shows I super duper enjoyed this year below. 

    1. Queer Eye: Las Vegas
    2. Slow Horses (S4)
    3. Obsession
    4. The Pitt
    5. Cobra Kai (Final Season)
    6. Love Is Blind: Minneapolis
    7. Gabby Petito
    8. Severance (S2)
    9. Love Is Blind: Sweden (S2)
    10. Apple Cider Vinegar 
    11. Running Point
    12. Adolescence
    13. What We Do In The Shadows (Final Season)
    14. Love on the Spectrum
    15. North of North
    16. Dying for Sex
    17. Dinosaur
    18. Four Seasons
    19. The Handmaids Tale (Final Season)
    20. Pee Wee As Himself
    21. Implosion
    22. Trainwreck: Poop Cruise
    23. Ginny and Georgia (S3)
    24. Americas Sweethearts
    25. The Bear (S4)
    26. Squid Game (Final Season)
    27. Too Much
    28. The Hunting Wives
    29. Love Is Blind: France
    30. Unknown Number
    31. Sirens
    32. Wednesday (S2)
    33. Peacemaker (S2)
    34. Hacks (S3)
    35. Sister Wives
    36. Victora Beckham
    37. Love Is Blind: Denver
    38. The Chair Company
    39. Taylor Swift's The End of an Era Documentary
    40. Alien: Earth
    41. Home for Christmas (S3)
    42. Lilith Fair: Building a Mystery

    2025 in Books

    All bolded books are ones I got from the library for free (get a library card motherfuckers). All italicized books are ones I got discounted/free secondhand/borrowed from a friend. And all the ones linked were my absolute favey faves of the year that I'd recommend to fellow book lovers.

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    1. The Bee Sting by Paul Murray
    2. Divine Rivals (Letters of Enchantment, #1) by Rebecca Ross
    3. Ruthless Vows (Letters of Enchantment, #2) by Rebecca Ross
    4. Onyx Storm (The Empyrean, #3) by Rebecca Yarros
    5. Save Me An Orange by Hayley Grace
    6. Margo's Got Money Troubles by Rufi Thorpe
    7. The Ministry of Time by Kaliane Bradley
    8. What My Bones Know by Stephanie Foo
    9. The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek by Kim Michele Richardson
    10. This American Ex-Wife: How I Ended My Marriage and Started Living My Life by Lyz Lenz
    11. The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins
    12. Behind Closed Doors by B.A. Paris
    13. Winter Park in Vintage Postcards by Robin Chapman
    14. Weyward by Emilia Hart
    15. The Breakdown by B.A. Paris
    16. Say You'll Remember Me by Abby Jimenez
    17. The Spanish Love Deception (Love Deception, #1) by Elena Armas
    18. The American Roommate Experiment (Love Deception, #2) by Elena Armas
    19. This Will All Be Over Soon: A Memoir by Cecily Strong
    20. Variation by Rebecca Yarros
    21. The Housemaid by Frieda McFadden
    22. Turtles All the Way Down by John Green (REREAD)
    23. Throne of Glass by Sarah J. Maas (REREAD)
    24. Crown of Midnight by Sarah J. Maas (REREAD)
    25. Fangirl Down (Big Shots, #1) by Tessa Bailey
    26. The Last Letter by Rebecca Yarros
    27. Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier
    28. Bury Our Bones in the Midnight Soil by V.E. Schwab
    29. The Testaments by Margaret Atwood
    30. Julie Chan is Dead by Liann Zhang
    31. The Postcard by Anne Berest
    32. The Pumpkin Spice Cafe by Laurie Gilmore
    33. The Poppy War by R.F.Kuang
    34. The Cinnamon Bun Book Store by Laurie Gilmore
    35. The Christmas Tree Farm by Laurie Gilmore
    36. The Woman in Cabin 10 by Ruth Ware
    I'd also like to note 34/36 of the books I read this year were written by women. Does that sound braggadocios? Good, it is. 💅

    A Junk Journaling Journey

    It all started with a Tik Tok that piqued my interest, which I then shared on my Instagram, and to my shock had several friends actually show genuine interest in joining me in this creative project. Crafting AND snail mail AND friends? This shit was made for me. 

    I compiled everyone into an IG group and got to work on our swap schedule. It was tricky to make sure all eight of us were receiving a new journal every two weeks. But I did manage to finally come up with a pretty great, color-coded schedule, all with my real human brain using no AI whatsoever! Hair flick. But also stop using AI cause it’s killing the planet and making everyone a dum dum!


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    We all started out with our own journal. We decorated the front, back, and a few pages in between to get it going before we all shipped to the first person on the handy dandy schedule. There were two weeks in between each swap which was what we all agreed upon in the beginning. We started in August and if everything went to plan we'd all have our journals back before Thanksgiving. 

    But things didn’t go totally to plan and this type A brain of mine had to accept that over and over again. Journals were late, some got backed up, or went on a side quest to an old address and we thought two journals were lost forever but turns out a postcard and kindness go a long way and they were recovered a month later. HA! Phew.

    Some people were already friends and others didn't know anyone but me. I was of course the only one in the group with a connection to everyone so my experience was certainly more personal with every single journal that passed through my hands. I love that my friends got to know one another via art, handwritten words, and of course the IG group chat. 

    There were no rules as far as what you could do with each journal. Fill out a single page or 10. Write your inner thoughts or finally stick those stickers you’ve been hoarding. Doodle, paint, or sew (shout out to Lauren for some truly cool paper sewing!). Literally whatever you wanted to do. Whatever spoke to you in that moment with that particular journal. Some of my favorite journal additions were when there was a page that asked a question or asked everyone to join in somehow. I loved the community in creating something together. 

    For me, I did a little bit of everything in every single journal. Everyone got at least a page of the inner workings of my fucked up brain. Everyone got some kind of pieced together art using all kinds of things I collected in my recent and past life.  I was of the mindset nothing is trash and pretty much everything could be repurposed. I’m talking regular shit like ticket stubs and receipts but also weird shit like cat claws (no cats were harmed in the making of Liz’s journal page!) and a stick of 35 year old gum. If you scroll down you’ll see my current list of wacky materials. 

    This was so creatively fulfilling for me that I finished every single journal within a couple days of receiving them. Not only that, but I had so much more to give that I created an "overflow" junk journal for when I was in between Sisterhood journals but needed to get it out of my system. 

    I love the way it has changed my view on how I see everything. I'm constantly looking at the most mundane thing and asking myself "What could I make out of that?", which is a really fun game to play with myself and my imagination. There was a true thrill when Dianna and I were at Liz's going away party and we were told to take the decorations, we looked at one another and screamed "JUNK JOURNAL!". Also it's been so sweet when others who do not have any interest in junk journaling have saved me things I might like to use in my own.

    Pro tip: Elmer's purple glue sticks were what I used on 90% of everything and worked SO WELL. The other 10% was just regular scotch tape and Elmer's glue (best for thicker items). 

    Here some of my favorite pages that I created whether it be in one of my own journals or others:


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    Materials used: pamphlet from work, stickers from my therapist, photos from my 40th

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    Materials used: magazines, part of a bumper sticker, leftover books from my book nook

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    Materials used: calendars, magazines, sheet music, a map, candy wrappers

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    Materials used: leftover velvet ribbon, wrapping paper, hole punches, glossier postcard ad
    Secret: Can you guess who cut out each star? Dianna, Liz, & Nicole... I'll never get over the last one for as long as I live. HAAAA!

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    Materials used: junk mail, real wax seals, pricing sticker
    Secret: I wrote answers under all of the yellow petals - like a magic 8 ball in flower form.

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    Materials used: old and new cards that screamed WHIMSY, pop corn bag
    Secret: I wrote a "fun fact" on either side of the popcorn bag crease. 
    Did any of my fellow journalers catch it?

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    Materials used: actual bandaid, snail stencil from a tattoo session that ended with a fern instead.
    I'll get my snail one of these days. 
    Secret: I wrote a word under the bandaid. Any guesses?

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    Materials used: just string and tape and fun paper

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    Materials used: 1920s sheet music from my gpa's collection, embroidery stencil
    Secret: Under each flap I asked the remaining journalers to answer two questions - a place you belong and a place you no longer belong.

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    Materials used: my gma's 1993 map
    Secret: I actually made a lil book by folding paper and stapling it together. 
    Each page is a mini junk journal. 

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    Materials used: Taylor postcard/stickers/air freshener, craft tag 
    Secret: There's a message under the kitty.

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    Materials used: magazine (can you guess the celebrity??), washi tape, pizza box

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    Materials used: magazine, fast food bag, package filler

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    Materials used: Taylor mad libs obvs, Taylor car air freshener "vinyl"

     
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    Materials used: my old bumper stickers (too good to throw away!)

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    Can you spot your handwriting? / A reminder that anything can be repurposed.

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    And here are some of my favorite pages done by others whether it be in my journal or someone else's:
    (There were so many other pages I fucking loved but I didn't want to post anything of anyone's that was personal and therefore those pages are for the Sisterhood of the Traveling Journals eyes only. But still some bangers in here!)

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    Becca

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    Angela / Nicole

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    Lauren

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    Katie

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    Liz

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    Melody

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    BTS: I started this when Florida was in the middle of a rainbow crosswalk war. The other side says "WHY SO SCARED OF CROSSWALKS BRUH?". It was such a great creative release as I received lots of truly heinous phone calls regarding the matter during that time. As Liz's journal moved along the line everyone appeared to add something to it and there were only a few small gaps left when it was returned to her. During one of our IRL meet-ups I asked if I could close-the-loop if you will and complete the crosswalk. She was all "Go ham!" and together Dianna and I  finished that bad boy. Isn't it cute?!

    Monday, December 29, 2025

    Dustin Says

    You're on LinkedIn? Work and social media are two things I hate the most. I'm LinkedOut. 

    I had to talk to a lady this morning about lawn shrimps. There were so many Red Lobster could've had an all you eat buffet.

    Dustin: It looks crazy outside. 
    Me: It's that Saharan Dust. 
    Dustin: That's my new stripper name. 

    People want to lay in the sun like they are hot dogs on a grill.

    Talking about Trump...
    Co-worker: He's such a business man!
    Dustin: I could put googly eyes on a turd and it would be more of a business man. 

    There's nothing worse than hearing the other team score a goal while you're dying on the toilet.

    Dustin: What's the name of the restaurant you're going to?
    Me: June
    Dustin: Well Cheeto and I are getting take out from July.

    Labubu sounds like a word Trump said but didn't mean, like covfefe.

    Dustin: You just love bloopers.
    Me: I really do. 
    Dustin: Probably because you're such a screw up. 

    Living labubu loca!

    Talking about Cheeto pissing outside the litter box...
    He's pissing as a "FUCK YOU!" to one of us and I think it's you.

    Oh he's losing it. If he were a notebook he'd be a spiral. 

    Our front door is so warped it's playing at the Citrus Bowl this weekend. 

    Sang to the tune of The Life of a Showgirl...
    He was a kitty
    Dropped him off in a new city
    He became radioactive but still pretty
    Olive got a lil bit hissy

    Don't ever text someone at Chili's. They could be enjoying a triple dipper.

    Me: Why didn't you put a new toilet paper on the roll?
    Dustin: Because there are still enough on there for a pee. I only use it for a D.

    Showing Dustin shirt options...
    I'm sure you're going to go with that one since it's your vibe...distressed. 

    I like my pillow as flat as a tortilla.

    Thursday, December 18, 2025

    2025 in Compliments

    Compliments


    I highly recommend keeping a list in your notes app. of all the compliments you receive in a year. Not to be dramatic but these bring me such joy I could cry. I started this last year and continued with it in 2025. As someone with depression and anxiety I have a lot of bad days so being able to open this list for a pick-me-up was truly significant. 

    As always, thank you for seeing me. And when you see others, please tell them. 

    My daughter requested to call you because she said she thinks you are beautiful and the funniest person. -Taylor on behalf of Val

    Thank you for making me feel loved. -Angela

    You look like a school teacher today. -Liz

    You and colors. You're so stunning! I've never seen anyone pull off orange the way you do. It's a gift! -Angela

    Thank you for thinking of me. -Amanda

    Tik Tok isn't as fun without you! -Val

    Thank you for being you. -Kathy

    Hello?????? I love????? The fit????? -Alyssa

    You're one of the coolest girls I've ever known. -Nicole L. 

    You have such a good laugh. -Co-worker

    You look so luminescent! -Beth

    If I could have anyone's hair it would be yours. -Susie

    You're the most put together person I know. -Erin

    You have good friends. -Ken

    I love your personality. -Venture

    You give such a good first impression for this office. -Susan

    Honestly, you're giving me LiveJournal nostalgia with your blog. -Liz

    I love reading your blog. -Luly

    I thought you were 25!! Well happy birthday fellow 80s baby! -Co-worker

    You make me want to be a better friend. -Erin

    I've helped four friends thanks to you. -Ashley 

    You're such a special human being. -Dianna

    I can see you vibing in Venice! -Sue

    I always walk into a room and think how I can rearrange things to make it better but I never do that at your house. -Erin

    You look so pretty even when sick. -Alex

    You guys take better care of your cats than a lot of people take care of their kids. -Co-worker

    Everything you do is art. -Dustin

    You could be a family archivist as a side hustle. -Co-worker

    You're really good at curating and thinking about the details. -Dianna

    You always do the right thing, you're such a good person, and that's why we love you. -Dustin

    You give the best hugs. -Anna

    You're unapologetically you. -Dustin

    I admire that you just fucking do shit. -Dustin


    2024 in Compliments

    Wednesday, December 3, 2025

    2025 in Music

    ALBUMS
    This was the year of new music in my world. So many of my favorite artists released new shit this year. Honestly, it was a bit overwhelming to have so many back to back releases. I feel like I had to move on too quickly from one album to listen to the next and newest. Champagne problems amiright?

    Here's a list of all the albums I was excited to listen to, what I thought about them, and which songs I liked the most.

    Lorde - Virgin is a solid return after the disappointment of Solar Power.
    • What Was That
    • Favorite Daughter
    • Current Affairs
    MGK - Lost Americana hooked me with the fun videos and kept me with the pop punk a la Tickets to My Downfall.
    • vampire diaries
    • starman
    • sweet coraline
    Hayley Williams - Ego Death at a Bachelorette Party is a no skip album of perfection. Fave of the year!
    • Parachute
    • Kill Me
    • Mirtazapine
    The Starting Line - Eternal Youth is the first TSL album in 18 years. It's fine and still growing on me.
    • Sense of Humor
    • Circulate
    Sabrina Carpenter - Man's Best Friend is another banger from our shortest and sweetest girl. 
    • House Tour
    • Nobody's Son
    • My Man on Willpower
    Taylor Swift - The Life of A Showgirl. Every Taylor album gets their own post
    • Father Figure
    • Elizabeth Taylor
    • The Fate of Ophelia
    Thrice - Horizons/West is better, in my dumb lil opinion, than Horizons/East.
    • Albatross
    • Holding On
    • Undertow
    Ace Enders - Posture Syndrome is what Ace calls his last solo album but I sure hope not. He still continues to make music I love all these years later. Hopefully we don't lose him to HSN.
    • Heavy
    • Dark Weather
    • Recede
    Florence + the Machine - Everybody Scream is raw and therapeutic. 
    • Buckle
    • The Old Religion
    • Perfume and Milk

    SONGS

    My list of stand alone songs I enjoyed this year. 

    Chapell Roan - The Giver
    Role Model - Look at that Woman
    Jetty Bones - Housing Crisis, Spine
    Maren Morris - be a bitch
    The Format - Holy Roller
    Olivia Dean - Man I Need 
    Katy Perry - bandaids
    Hilary Duff - Mature


    Didn't Come Out In 2025 But That's When We Met

    Billie Eilish - Birds of a Feather
    Bring Me The Horizon - Happy Song


    DUSTIN’s PICKS

    Song that represents 2025: Every time I Die - Planet Shit
    Song of the Year: Thrice - Vesper Light


    CONCERTS

    The Rocket Summer | Mae
    Halsey
    Couch Messiahs
    Stevie Nicks | Vanessa Carlton
    Jack's Mannequin
    The Spill Canvas | Mae 


    LYRICS

    We hit the reset so hard I think the whole country cracked
    Now I got friends who are fighting for the right to exist
    While half of the population claiming it’s just politics


    Carrying my mother's mother's torment
    I think I'm where the bloodline ends
    I'll never do the right thing again


    And I am changing, becoming something else
    A creature of longing, tending only to myself